Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
Month: May 2011
Resistance
A friend recently gave me a book she thought I might enjoy, and I really have. It’s the sort of book that whatever you open … Read more …
Who will we have become?
Sick with an ordinary coldNothing to do but wait it outAnd feel sorry for myselfFor missing class Instead I settle in with videosRandom classes decades … Read more …
Learning Through Feeling – “The Mirror” on AikiWeb
Learning Through Feeling – “The Mirror” on AikiWeb
I’m one of a group of writers on AikiWeb.com called “The Mirror”. We write a column every month. This month was my turn again. Learning to feel, and learning through feeling, through the body, have been some of the most important and valuable things I’ve gotten from my Aikido training. I hope you enjoy the column: http://www.aikiweb.com/forums/showthread.php?t=19818
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You see when a baby animal experiences stress, its brain changes so that it’s subsequently less sensitive to stress hormones. This means that, as an adult, the critter recovers more rapidly after a hair-raising experience (21). And we know that play (which normally consists of exciting ‘flight or fight’ behaviors) activates the same neurochemical pathways as stress (22). So maybe young animals are using play to prime or fine-tune their own stress response.The other very important thing we’ve learnt from the humble rat is that when they’re reared with lots of companions and interesting objects, they develop larger brains than rats that grow up in austere surroundings. These enriched rats not only have heavier cerebral cortexes, with more neural connections, they learn more quickly too.
Researchers teased apart the factors that promoted this brain growth and found that sensory stimulation and arousal (even together) couldn’t increase cortical growth unless they were coupled with interactive behavior (i.e. play or training). And it was play that had the biggest impact; in fact, the more a young rat played, the more rapidly its brain grew (23).
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Wake up calls
This is kinda funny, especially relative to the “wake-up call” quality of atemi discussed in class last night. Today I was listening to the Working … Read more …
Year Three – Another Beginning
Today marks the beginning of my third year in Aikido. When I first started training, I meant to become a better horseperson. I have, but … Read more …