Group photo of members of Aikido of San Diego, on the mat and dressed in training uniforms, following Ana Allen's 1st-kyu exam. Photo by Christine Cessna.
Aikido of San Diego members after Ana Allen's 1st kyu exam - Photo by her daughter, Christine Cessna

Linda Eskin — Writing About Aikido Since 2009

We’ve recently had a few project days at the dojo – a New Year’s Cleaning Day before our first training of 2011, and yesterday re-stretching the mat cover, now that it’s settled in after its first 6 months in use. And back in June and July we helped prepare the new location, move there, and clean up the old place.

It’s one of things I really love about our dojo, and probably about martial arts schools in general, that it truly is a community, where people pitch in to help. That we can pitch in and help. There’s a sense of belonging and ownership that’s comes from serving in that way, and it’s available to everyone, of any rank. As a relative newbie who cannot contribute much else, personally, I really value that opportunity.

In so many of our other day-to-day experiences we pay our money, get what we paid for, and call it even. We are not allowed past the “Employees Only” signs. There are “No user serviceable parts inside.” We are kept out, not authorized, not needed.

In a dojo, it’s a community. When your neighbor is putting up a barn or their crop needs to be brought in before a storm, you don’t wait to be asked, you pitch in and help. And sometimes you bring food, too. You get more out of service than you ever give, and more than you could ever pay for. It’s how the community, your community, is created, and it’s a privilege to be a part of it. 

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We had a sho-dan promotion at our dojo recently, a 73 year-old gentleman named Lloyd McClellan. 

In honor of Lloyd’s accomplishment I am adding a new tag to my blog: roll_models (Aikido role models).

Lloyd’s story is his to tell, but I’ll share my own experience of Lloyd. 

When I started training, at 46, I read a few things by George Leonard Sensei. Leonard Sensei had also started Aikido at 46, I believe, and had written an essay titled “On Getting a Black Belt at Age Fifty-Two.” He went on to become a 5th dan. I found these bits of information very heartening. 46 was not “too late." 

From my newbie perspective Lloyd has been training "forever.” He is older, he is senior to me, and he is competent, kind, generous, a good teacher, and he’s strong as an ox. Those things are great, and worthy of admiration, but it didn’t surprise me that someone who’d been training forever would have those qualities.

Lloyd is also a just plain cool guy. He wears a cowboy hat and a cowboy mustache, and he drives a pickup. It would surprise me if there weren’t some cattle at some point that back up that hat. 

He knows his limits on the mat – he doesn’t roll a lot, doesn’t sit in seiza – but he doesn’t let them stop him. I’ve seen him frustrated, tired, and in pain, but I’ve never seen him discouraged.

But the most impressive thing about Lloyd didn’t really strike me until his sho-dan demo came up. Lloyd started training when he was 65. I don’t know if it ever crossed his mind to ask himself “what am I thinking, starting a martial art at my age?” If it did, he didn’t let it stop him. 

I want to be like Lloyd when I grow up. 

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I happened to stumble onto this video via iTunes today. It’s part of a video podcast series on culture in Spain. It simply and elegantly answers “what is Aikido?” in terms anyone (non-practitioners) can easily understand. Nicely done. I recommend Full Screen mode (click the little monitor icon).

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zanshinart:

Make your own OSensei!

I’ve never “reblogged” anything, but this is too much fun to pass up. It’s a very cool little project from the Argentinian Aikido Organization, aikidoargentina.org. It was posted on a very cool blog, Zanshin Art. I can’t believe I wasn’t already following her posts. You might also want to. Enjoy.

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Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

Howard Thurman (1900-1981) minister, educator, civil rights leader

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